Jennifer Sands, who lost her husband in the attacks, said that her faith was shattered on 9/11. She used to pray for his safe return when he left for work every day, and suddenly, he was gone. But Sands’ curiosity over this matter led her to begin to study the Bible for the first time and to develop a newfound evangelical Christian faith. Sands now prays before every meal (even in restaurants) and casually talks about Jesus with her friends—an issue that has led to some of them to peg her as a “Jesus freak.” She says that after 9/11, she had trouble grasping the fact that God would let something so terrible happen to her. Now, her faith has changed her mindset: “In John 16:33, Jesus says that in this world, you will have some trouble. But I know he has a plan for me.”
Travis Boyd, who, at age 12, lost his mother on 9/11, also turned to religion to help cope. “I know God does things for a reason,” he said. “I knew God would get me through it.”
Sands and Boyd, like so many others after 9/11, turned to religion to help ease her suffering. These actions fall under the realm of the terror management theory—the idea that self-esteem protects us from thoughts about death. The terror management theory presumes that, when reminded of death, people will use defense mechanisms to help rid thoughts of death from their mind and return them to a more composed psychological state. These defense mechanisms are often in the form of personal and cultural worldviews. Specific cultural views, such as religion, can help shield people from their underlying death anxiety.
Source: USA Today, 4/18/08
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